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Why Is Finding Love So Hard for Late-Diagnosed Autistic Folks and Those with Cluster B Personality Disorders?
Love was never designed for those who feel too much. For late-diagnosed Autistic individuals and those with Cluster B personality disorders, relationships are not just about romance—they are about navigation, survival, and decoding a world that never quite made sense to us. We love intensely, sometimes recklessly, often profoundly, but rarely in ways that fit neatly into conventional expectations.
We are the ones who overanalyze every interaction, who burn too brightly or disappear entirely, who crave connection but fear the pain it inevitably brings. We exist in a paradox—wanting love that is steady yet electrifying, safe yet consuming, permanent yet adaptable. And when the world tells us we are "too much" or "not enough," we are left asking: Are we truly unlovable, or are we just playing by different rules?
This is for the ones who have felt too complicated to keep—the ones whose hearts are cracked but still glowing. Because love, for us, may not come easy, but when it does? It’s unlike anything else.