Love: A Journey Inward and Outward
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Love isn’t always easy to let in. For some, it feels effortless—like the way sunlight filters through a window, warm and constant. For others, it takes time, patience, and an incredible amount of courage. Learning to trust love, to open the door to it, and to believe you are worthy of it can be one of the most transformative journeys of your life.
For me, love has been a journey of self-discovery—like the first time I let a close friend see me cry, or when I shared my poetry with someone who mattered to me. It’s been a way to explore my identity, my capacity for vulnerability, and my ability to hold space for others. It’s a process filled with moments of doubt, fear, and growth, but also incredible beauty.
For Those Who Are Just Learning to Be Loved
If you’re just starting this journey, know that you’re not alone. Learning to be loved isn’t easy, especially if you’ve been hurt before. It’s like learning to trust a bridge after seeing others collapse—a slow, cautious process of finding stability again. It’s okay to feel unsure. It’s okay to question whether you’re worthy of the love you’re receiving. The answer, though, is always yes.
The first step is letting love in—bit by bit, in whatever ways feel safe for you. Sometimes it looks like letting someone compliment you without deflecting. Sometimes it’s trusting that when someone says they care, they mean it. Other times, it’s allowing yourself to feel joy in their presence without waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Love as a Teacher
One of the most surprising things I’ve learned is that love doesn’t always arrive wrapped in perfection. Often, it comes through flawed, human people who show us what it means to hold space for another’s imperfections—and to have them hold space for ours.
It’s not about the grand gestures or romantic ideals. It’s about the small, everyday moments that remind you: I see you. I accept you. You’re enough as you are.
For someone learning to be loved, this kind of clarity can be startling. It forces you to stop running and start trusting—not only the person you love but also yourself. Love reflects the truths we often avoid—showing us the parts of ourselves we’d rather hide and challenging us to accept them. In doing so, it teaches us courage, openness, and compassion, not only for others but for the person in the mirror.
A Life Transformed by Love
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: letting in love is a process. It takes time to unlearn the fear of rejection or pain. It takes courage to be vulnerable and to trust that the love you’re receiving is real. But when you allow yourself to let it in, love becomes a force of transformation.
It’s not about being perfect or getting it right every time. It’s about showing up, being present, and allowing yourself to feel—fully and without apology.
Wherever you are in your journey, I hope you give yourself grace. It’s okay to feel scared. It’s okay to take your time. Love doesn’t need to rush you. It’s there, waiting for you, patiently glowing, ready to reshape how you see yourself—and the world around you—forever.
As you think about love’s presence in your life, consider the moments where it’s challenged or transformed you. Reflect on what it means to you to let love in—to trust it, embrace it, and allow it to shape your world.
